The Car Ride Home, Part 5: When To Talk About Mistakes
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The Car Ride Home, Part 5: When To Talk About Mistakes

You still want to help your child improve, but timing matters. In this post, we look at why the car ride is usually the wrong moment for coaching, how to wait for emotions to settle, how to ask permission before giving feedback, and how to set simple family rules that keep the ride home a safe place.

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The Car Ride Home, Part 4: What To Say
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The Car Ride Home, Part 4: What To Say

If the car ride home is not the time for a full game review, what is it for? Instead of lectures, parents can lean on a few simple phrases that work after wins, losses, and tough personal games. This post gives you ready to use lines and questions that help your child feel supported, not judged.

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The Car Ride Home, Part 3: Common Mistakes
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The Car Ride Home, Part 3: Common Mistakes

Parents mean well on the ride home, but kids often hear something very different. This post breaks down common car ride habits, from heavy silence to instant replay lectures and comparison talk, and explains how each one sounds from the back seat.

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The Car Ride Home, Part 2: What Kids Hear When We Talk
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The Car Ride Home, Part 2: What Kids Hear When We Talk

After that tough game, my son climbed into the back seat, buckled in, and stared out the window in angry silence. No phone, no snack, no words. In this post, we sit in that quiet car and look at what that heavy silence really means for kids and parents.

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The Car Ride Home, Part 1: My Wake-Up Call
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The Car Ride Home, Part 1: My Wake-Up Call

On a cold, rainy night, my son limped off the field in tears and told me he never wanted to play again. It was not just the weather or the rough opponent. It was what waited for him between the field and our front door. This is the car ride that woke me up as a sports parent.

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The Car Ride Home: Why it Matters More Than You Think
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The Car Ride Home: Why it Matters More Than You Think

For kids ages 6 to 13, the most important part of youth sports may not be the game at all. It is the quiet ride home. In this series, we will look at how those short drives can either build a child’s love of sport or slowly push them away, and what parents can do differently.

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